How to Ask for a Raise (And Actually Get It)
Most people never ask for a raise — or they ask wrong. Here is how to negotiate a salary increase with confidence and evidence.
Why Most People Never Ask
Fear of rejection, not knowing their worth, not knowing how to ask. Meanwhile, employees who negotiate earn an average of $5,000–$10,000 more per year than those who do not.
Do Your Research First
Know the market rate for your role, experience level, and location. Use: Glassdoor, LinkedIn Salary, Levels.fyi (tech), the Bureau of Labor Statistics, and salary surveys in your industry.
Build Your Case
Document your accomplishments from the past 12 months:
- •Revenue generated or supported
- •Cost savings you identified
- •Projects completed ahead of schedule
- •Problems you solved
- •Skills you developed
Quantify everything. "I led the rebrand" is weak. "I led the rebrand that increased conversion by 22%" is strong.
How to Start the Conversation
"I would like to schedule time to discuss my compensation. I have been reflecting on my contributions and market rates, and I believe there is an opportunity to align my salary with both."
The Actual Ask
Be specific. "Based on my research and contributions, I am asking for a salary of $X." Do not give a range — you will get the bottom of it.
When to Ask
After a major win, during annual review cycle, when you have received an outside offer (carefully), or when you have taken on significantly more responsibility.
Handle the "No" Gracefully
Ask: "What would need to change for me to reach that level?" Get specifics. Document them. Follow up in 6 months.
Conclusion
Asking for a raise is a skill. Research, evidence, and timing are the keys. The worst outcome is a "not yet" — and now you know what to work toward.
Educational disclaimer: This content is for educational purposes only and does not constitute financial, investment, tax, or legal advice. Always consult a qualified professional before making financial decisions.
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